FAMILY
RELATIONSHIPS
1.
Our family members are the closest people we will ever have. Why are family
relationships so important for people? Family is very important to people. It is the
emotional center of their lives. Your family
will always listen to you and give you advice when you need it. They will
always cover your back and support you no matter if you are right or wrong.
They will make you feel secure and confident. Your family will always guide you
and protect you. You can talk to them if you have problems. They teach you how
to be understanding, caring, patient and respectful.
2.
How can you describe the relationships in your family? Do you do anything
together with your family? I
am happy, because I have a good and loving family. It means the world to me.
They are always there for me in difficult times; they help me when I am in
trouble. They respect me and my opinions. We discuss our problems and always
look for the best solutions. Of course, my parents can be strict sometimes, but
they mean well and want me to be the best I can be. We spend a lot of time
together: go to the cinema and to the country, travel, read the same books,
play different games, talk and have family meals. We have a tradition to
celebrate all holidays together.
My
brother/sister and I used to fight when we were little. My brother/sister
called me names, tried to hit me and ruined my stuff. Our parents thought it
was my fault, because I am older. But now we have a wonderful relationship. I
help my brother/sister with homework and he/she helps me with household chores.
We learnt to respect each others’ private space and differences.
3.
What are the most dangerous family problems? We spend so much time with our family members, that
these relations play the biggest role in our lives. Family problems can be very
serious, because they may lead to quarrels, misunderstanding, frustration and
even divorce. In my opinion the most dangerous family problems are generation
gap and sibling rivalry.
The term “generation gap” means that the older and the younger
generation may have different ideas and attitudes. Teenagers tend to rebel against their
parents – it’s a normal part of growing up. They actively try to figure out who
they are. Their friends become more important than family and they often listen
to them and not to their mom and dad. It doesn’t mean that one of the
generations is bad; it just means that they are different.
Sibling
rivalry describes bad relations between brothers and sisters. They can fight,
quarrel, pick on each other, rat each other out, play ugly tricks on each
other. Sometimes it is a fight for attention. Very often a little bit of
sibling rivalry is also normal, because this way children test their power and
learn about each others’ differences.
To solve
both these problems parents and children should spend more time together,
discuss and compromise.
4.
Imagine that you are talking to a British teenager. Ask him/her questions about
his/her family.
5.
What advice can you give someone whose children are always fighting?